Let's talk about lust...

If you are widowed, divorced, finished with rubbish relationships, if you've just become a Christian, if you are thinking about getting married or even if you are married, at some point you are going to have to get a handle on Lust because it is not a male preserve.
A lady's lust is used to living in the cellar and as a result she has underdeveloped eyes and ears, besides she does not want to see and she does not listen. She likes very much to dress up as different characters, she likes to play Nurse and A Bit Of Fun and her favourite dressing up is Love, all fluffy and pink with red beating hearts.
Lust is usually kept happy by your frequent day visits. But when Lust realises you are not visiting quite as frequently any more she will to coin a phrase, kick right off and even chocolate will not calm her down. The voice of Lust says, 'you're not normal, everyone else is doing it, there's something wrong with you, look at her...even she manages it... just this once' and 'IT'S NOT FAIR. I HAVE TO. You can't stop me. It's my basic human right...See ME...' Blah , blah, unfortunately Lust's mouth is very over developed.
Your first response to an out of control Lust might be, 'Right...I'm going to bury that sucker.' And you might have some success...starved of the attention she craves she will shrink but try to imagine Lust as that psycho in a film, the one that just will not die whatever you throw at it, machetes, bullets, the A-bomb...six-feet of soil...she still manages to claw her way out grasping for her stiletto.

And just when I think 'I have no control over this freak...' I think I got some of the answer...I have no control over this freak. The one thing that makes Lust kick off is not to be seen, so my advice is see her but ignore her, and do not feed her, write your list of top favourite things to do without Lust and every time she raises her ugly deformed head, do them instead...enjoy the sound of her shriek...'I'm Melt-ing...'
Because make no mistake Lust out of control will take everything; your list, your keys...your shoes THE LOT. So double, double enjoy everything Lust can't get her filthy mits on...and finally if you truly, truly love someone...don't let HER near them x

1 Thessalonian s 3 It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality;
4 that each of you should learn to control your own body in a way that is holy and honorable,
5 not in passionate lust like the pagans, who do not know God;
6 and that in this matter no one should wrong or take advantage of a brother or sister.

The Lord will punish all those who commit such sins, as we told you and warned you before.
7 For God did not call us to be impure, but to live a holy life.
8 Therefore, anyone who rejects this instruction does not reject a human being but God, the very God who gives you his Holy Spirit.

9 Now about your love for one another we do not need to write to you, for you yourselves have been taught by God to love each other. 10 And in fact, you do love all of God’s family throughout Macedonia. Yet we urge you, brothers and sisters, to do so more and more,
11 and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: You should mind your own business and work with your hands, just as we told you,
12 so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders and so that you will not be dependent on anybody.